Here is a reminder.
Before being a mother and wife and one of the many other relative to the many men ( and women) in your life, before even being a woman, you are a human being. And you are only answerable to the Creator.
If you have a different opinion remember that it is because you have been conditioned to think and believe so by society over a very long period of time. A time as long as human existence.
You ARE a free spirit.
In your last hours, God is not going to ask you how you served others. He is going to ask you what did you do with your human life?
You are a free spirit.
Believe this. Understand this truth.
And now know this that you can choose to act in any role and meet demands made by society... If you choose to. Not because you have to.