Sunday, November 29, 2009

For someone who is afraid of close relationships lest my space is violated... networking is godsend
No I am not one of those lonely souls who is living in a shell. I like my small group of close friends whom I meet and talk to when I can. But I am crowd shy.
I like the space that networking sites offer me. Where I meet known and unknown friends across the virtual sea. It isn't unlike any other form of relationship. Except you can choose to get in touch with them personally or just air your thoughts while your contacts are free to water them or ignore. It’s like going to a work place where you meet familiar friends every day ... but never physically. You only share good moments. You can sign out any time you like. You can ignore. You can look into the window that they open for you and not beyond to see what goes in their lives. You do the same. There are no unwanted visitors that you have to attend to. You can shut out when you are in a mood to hibernate. You can revel when the spirits are high. Knock on doors... leave a message. See their kids grow up... or where they have traveled.
It’s strangely public and yet private.


Balachandran V said...

Yes, both private and public! Yet, sometimes I feel sad - the relationship between the bloggers, other than those who know each other personally, physically, is void of something. And one is afraid, if physical contact might rob something of the present relationship; yet again, some have this strange apprehension of furthering the relationship. Yes, like you said, how strange!

kaalpanique said...

Yes. and I also thought... sometimes we find it easier to bare our heart and soul to total strangers!!!! WHy?